a "been-there" mom of six offers encouragement
to wives, young mothers, and those not so young,
and simple common-sense approaches to
the "ings" of life:
child-rearing (hints and helps), homemaking (all areas),
cooking (simple, cheap, and do-it-yourself)
making (toys and gifts), preparing (for the unexpected),
maintaining (sanity and peace in this increasingly crazy world) and more---
all aspects of making the most of making do on little---
and having fun in the process.

Friday, October 26, 2012

A Christmas Calendar That Keeps You on Track Visually

Counting the Days Really Does Make the Days Count


If the instructions on my post (earlier today) were confusing,
here is a sample I made up on the computer, using clip art,  
four years ago.

The only way I could make it large enough for you to see was to turn it sideways.
Sorry 'bout that!



Something important to consider and remember:

Very, very often it's the little things that create memories . . .


great memories that last a lifetime !

"reading this brought back so many memories , Mom! so many wonderful times!!!! (i had forgotten about how we used to check off the days with weird lines. ha!) no wonder Christmas is still my favorite holiday... Jeremy"

A Christmas Calendar That Keeps You on Track

We made our first Christmas calendar for basically selfish reasons. Our first two children were very young, but old enough to know that the big event was coming up, and we were getting tired of them asking "how many days until..."  And they weren't old enough to read.

As with so many things, over time it evolved into much more. It kept us on track during this hectic time of year, and it committed us to doing what we had said we would do----at times when it is so easy to let things just slip by, either intentionally or unintentionally.

Our December activities actually began the last couple days of November. 

With a black marking pen, one of the parents would make a December calendar on a full sheet of poster board. 

We would all gather around our big table.

A stack of November and December "women's" magazines (mainly old issues we reused for several years, along with one or two new ones), pairs of scissors, clear tape and glue were piled in the center.

The first order of business would be to compile a master list of all the thing we wanted or needed to do in December. It was a long list---getting the tree, decorating the tree, putting up outside lights, baking cookies, etc. 

Only Child Outings!

There was one evening allotted for each child to go gift shopping with us, ending with a stop at an eating place of their choice for a treat of their choice. (What began with two kids quite quickly grew to six, so Dave and I got lots of treats!)

Alongside the activities that had specific dates ---- arrival time of family members or relatives, church and school programs, Christmas eve, Christmas day ---- we noted the dates. These are the events that would be penciled in on the calendar first.  Each person chose an event and began to search the magazines for a picture that would represent it, cut it out, and fasten it on the appropriate day.

Next we decided on dates for each of the remaining activities and began searching, cutting and pasting.

The completed calendar was hung at kid level, usually in the hall. A quick glance told each of us what lay ahead. Every evening, just before bedtime, we would gather at the calendar. Taking turns, a big X marked off the day just closing and in unison we would count off the days remaining until Christmas. 

Nothing ever remains simple!!

As seemingly simple as this activity appears, the kids still managed to try my patience as they got older. They still insisted on cutting out representative pictures. They had to get creative. You can only imagine how many elaborate ways high school kids can find to cross through a simple square, or the speed and variety of ways they can count! They loved it (and really loved watching me try to control my exasperation)!

Traditions Happen!!!

Our Christmas calendar became a must-do tradition that carried on until the last ones left home (although some of the event representations became quite humorous and abstract).

And it carries on in their homes. . .

The Proof

Immediately after this post appeared last year (my first year of posting) the following comment appeared. It made my day.
reading this brought back so many memories , Mom! so many wonderful times!!!! (i had forgotten about how we used to check off the days with weird lines. ha!) no wonder Christmas is still my favorite holiday... Jeremy

And. . . 

actually, our calender didn't end at December 31st. We had (and still have) three very important New Year's Day traditions. But that's for next  time.

Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Homemade Play-dough and Finger Paints


Since I am always encouraging you to use your imagination . . .

how about these simple gifts that encourage the recipients to use their imagination!




From my bookette, Simply Keepin' 'em Busy

Finger Paints!!!
1 envelope unflavored gelatin
1/2 cup cornstarch
3 T. sugar
2 cups cold water
dish washing liquid
food coloring
white shelf paper or other slick paper

In small bowl, add gelatin to 1/4 cup warm water and set aside. In a medium saucepan, combine cornstarch and sugar. Gradually add the cold water and cook slowly over low heat, stirring until well blended. Remove from heat and add softened gelatin. Divide mixture into as many separate containers as you want colors. For each color first add a drop or two of liquid detergent and then add food coloring a little at a time until you have the color you want. Store in the refrigerator. Will keep up to six weeks.

Friday, October 19, 2012

More Simple and Cheap Gift Ideas You Can Make

Another Day . . .

and another post to help you 
s  t  r  e  t  c  h 
your hard-earned dollars at gift-giving time.

Except. . .this one is for Halloween
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/09/halloween-homemade-cheap-and-creative.html


This one smells good!
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/12/making-spicy-scents-for-cents.html

A Gift for Dad or Grandpa



Many yummy treats that aren't tricky --- for gift giving or just enjoying

Instant Egg Nog Pie
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/12/simply-yummy-eggnog-pie.html

Jams, Jellies, and Butters --- made-out-of-season and a perfect go-along  with homemade bread
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2012/01/making-jam-and-jelly-out-of-season.html

Quick Homemade Bread - who can resist a warm loaf of bread?
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/08/this-bread-sold-our-home.html

Same Bread Only Quicker!
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2012/04/easiest-tastiest-mixer-bread-ever.html

Speciality Pancake Syrup Mixes
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/12/replicating-specialty-pancake-syrups.html

Master Batch  for Hot Chocolate Mixes
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/08/solving-daily-bedtime-nightmare.html

Just Add Water Master Mixes (You can find a wide variety of  master mixes on the internet)
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2012/01/make-your-own-just-add-water-master.html

Amazing Microwave Bread and Butter Pickles  - just like grandma used to make!
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2012/08/simply-amazing-microwave-bread-and.html

Freezer Cookies - Make Ahead and Bake When Ready (A good friend of ours gift was a roll of frozen cookie with instructions on how to bake them when we were ready to have a hot cookie - a simply great idea!)
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/09/lofty-freeze-n-bake-sugar-cookies.html

Chocolate Copy-cat candies
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/08/i-love-chocolate.html

http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/10/copy-cat-holiday-treats-1-of-several.html

Popcorns - in many flavors
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/10/copy-cat-holiday-treats-2-of-several.html

http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/10/copy-cat-holiday-treats-3-of-several.html

Fudge - in many varieties
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/11/copy-cat-holiday-treats-4-of-several.html

Peanut Clusters
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/11/copy-cat-holiday-treats-5-of-several.html

Toffee, Turtles, Pralines
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/11/copy-cat-holiday-treats-6-of-several.html

The Real Costs of  Purchased Gift Packages and How to Do it Yourself
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/11/copy-cat-holiday-treats7-of-7.html

http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2012/04/greatest-gift-for-grandma.html

Christmas Activities

Create a Family Christmas Month Calendar
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/11/christmas-counting-days-making-days.html

Simple Activities that Create Forever Memories
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/11/memories-are-forever-gifts.html

How we Celebrate the "Most Wonderful Time of the Year"
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/11/celebrating-most-wonderful-time-of-year.html

And for Other Times of the Year

"Just Because" 
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2012/05/noteworthy-holiday-just-because.html

Tuesday, October 16, 2012

Simple & Cheap Ideas for Making Your Own Gifts

Homemade gifts are special anytime.

During these increasingly difficult financial hard times, homemade gifts may be a life-saver.

To start off this series of possible gifts for almost everyone on your gift-giving list, I am recalling some of my previous posts.  Just checking them out---- even if they don't specifically meet your needs--- may get your creative juices flowing with ideas for adapting an idea or as a springboard to another idea.

I always look at gift catalogs and ads for inspiration on recreating their ideas myself.  Usually the prices are outrageous and often the quality isn't that great. I have learned to read the "small-print" which brings to light any attempt to deceive (especially sizes in "kits" and cleverly packaged food gifts).  

Too many times, what catalogs or ads identify as stocking-stuffers cost as much as what we can afford for our main gifts. 

With a little forethought, no matter what we can do---sew, cook, bake, craft, draw (even if we don't feel we are particularly good at any of it)---we can create simple and meaningful gifts for others.  

Getting started -- miscellaneous overview 

http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/08/when-catalogs-start-coming.html

Gifts for Children:

Two Barrette Holders
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/10/diy-barrette-holders-for-gift-giving.html

Three Art Kits
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/10/diy-art-kits-for-gift-giving.html

Craft Kits -- sewing, sponge painting, and rubber stamping
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/10/diy-craft-kits-for-gift-giving.html

Simple mitten-type "My Family" Hand Puppets
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011_10_16_archive.html

Doorway Puppet Theater
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/08/doorway-puppet-theater-easy-diy-project.html

Simple Toys for tots and toddlers --- rattles, counting lids, photo book
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/10/thrifty-toys-for-tots-and-toddlers.html

Chunky Crayons
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/08/two-toddler-things-make-one-laugh-at.html

The Good News Bear! 
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/08/bring-bright-bits-of-recognition-with.html

Dress-Up Kits
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/08/when-catalogs-start-coming.html


Gifts for Grandparents  

part 1
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/10/creative-gifts-for-grandparents-part.html
part 2
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/10/creative-gifts-for-grandparents-part_19.html

A priceless T-Shirt for Grandma 
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2012/04/greatest-gift-for-grandma.html

And a Necktie for Grandpa---(will be included in my next post)

Gifts for Anyone

Fingerprint note cards
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/10/give-gift-of-fingerprints.html

Fabric scraps make lasting memories
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/08/frugal-gift-ideas-making-priceless.html

Good News Bear for a teacher gift
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/08/bring-bright-bits-of-recognition-with.html

A Cooling "Necktie"
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/08/cool-tie-for-hot-days.html

Safe Olive Oil Lights
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/09/homemade-olive-oil-lamps-safe-cheap-and.html

Lightweight Food Gifts for mailing ('cause postage is so expensive)
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/09/when-there-is-need-to-go-distance.html


Gifts of Self --- Not "Stuff" 

Part 1
Giving a future gift now
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/10/1-give-gift-of-self-not-stuff.html

Part 2
Coupons for  those who live far away
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/10/2-give-gift-of-self-not-stuff.html

Part 3 
Ideas, plus how to make a coupon booklet
http://thecreativecheapskate.blogspot.com/2011/10/3-give-gift-of-self-not-stuff.html



On Friday I will continue to provide the posts for my other  DIY gifts---including a variety of copy-cat candies and other treats --- all for much, much less than their commercial counterparts 
because I am . . . 

Simply, Gail the Creative Cheapskate



Thursday, October 11, 2012

What Makes Romney Romney: A Mormon's Perspective


This is part two. If you haven't already done so, please  read yesterday's post.

I sat with my feet up last Saturday and Sunday but this time it was not because of gout like the previous weekend. This time it was a highly anticipated and renewing occasion---the twice-a-year opportunity to
hear the modern day servants of our Lord and Savior, speak to us. Each conference is a time of learning and recommitment to fulfilling the covenants we make at baptism to do our best to serve the Lord by serving
His people.

If you are a follower of my blog, you probably already realize I am a Mormon. I joined the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints 50 years ago this week.

I attended several different churches over the years — seeking answers to my basic questions and gleaning the good that each religion had to offer.  I found what I was seeking when I attended the “Mormon” Church. I found the straight-forward answers to where did I come from? why am I here? and where am I going? This religion, restored in its fullness from the days of Jesus Christ, taught me how to work towards accomplishing the quote I kept at my bedside.



Governor Mitt Romney was blessed to have these teachings from his very beginning. He was fortunate to have been taught by parents and teachers and leaders who were committed to and taught these messages from the Lord.* 

The teachings of Jesus and His apostles were dramatic and dynamic. They were honest, sometimes brutally so, and necessary for the good of the people. For these very same reasons they were not popular with the general public.

Jesus and His apostles did not try to charm the audiences with witty, entertaining dialog in an effort  to sidestep and gloss over the real issues. Jesus Christ and His leaders did not make empty promises or predictions.  Jesus addressed the real issues---the important issues---personal life- and world-saving issues ---even when they were tough. I don't believe Jesus' style was to bang the pulpit and raise his voice in His efforts to organize and incite the people.  Those methods were used by those who reviled Him and feared Him and didn't want to have personal accountability.

Over the past months we have continually witnessed the media barrage berating Governor Romney's lack of  showmanship and vibrancy as a lack of ability and depth. Nothing could be further from the truth. In truth, it is the attempts at wit and evasion by our current leaders that show their lack of ability and depth. 

Mitt Romney is a product of his beliefs and his upbringing as a disciple of Jesus Christ.  I can think of no better way to introduce you to "Mormons," and their deportment, than to let you see and hear for yourselves some of our leaders, at last week-end's conference, as they deliver the instruction and messages our Savior would have us hear.

The following will take you to very short excerpts (most are one minute or less) of messages from last week-end's world-wide conference of the Church of Jesus Christ of latter-day Saints. These could well be the most important minutes you can spend to let you know  "What Makes Romney Romney." 

http://www.lds.org/prophets-and-apostles/unto-all-the-world/apostles-speak-october-2012?lang=eng

To the American People:

Our  lives and the many freedoms we have been granted through the Constitution of this great country of America are endangered and hang on the outcome of this upcoming election.

Please prayerfully consider what I have written, and what you witnessed for yourself as you clicked on the above. 

Please share this with others who may be still be caught up in the vibrant dynamics of our current leaders, not realizing that their increasingly frantic antics are, in reality, an attempt to have us overlook the real-life matters they will not address because they cannot address them.

Please recognize that showmanship and vivaciousness are not the necessary qualities of a good president.

Above all else, please cast your vote.  

Simply, Gail.


*One of the first things we’re taught as children are the Articles 
of Faith — 13 statements that summarize our fundamental beliefs.

Two years before he died, the Prophet Joseph Smith wrote them in a letter to a newspaper editor, John Wentworth, who had asked for information about the Church. Ever since the Articles of Faith were written, they’ve inspired and directed us in the basic principles of our gospel. They enhance our understanding of certain doctrines and help us commit to living them. They invite further thought. And they’re a good tool for explaining our beliefs to people unfamiliar with them.

1. We believe in God, the Eternal Father, and in His Son, Jesus Christ, and in the Holy Ghost.

2. We believe that men will be punished for their own sins, and not for Adam’s transgression.

3. We believe that through the Atonement of Christ, all mankind may be saved, by obedience to the laws and ordinances of the Gospel.

4. We believe that the first principles and ordinances of the Gospel are: 
first, Faith in the Lord Jesus Christ; 
second, Repentance; 
third, Baptism by immersion for the remission of sins; 
fourth, Laying on of hands for the gift of the Holy Ghost.

5. We believe that a man must be called of God, by prophecy, and 
by the laying on of hands by those who are in authority, to preach 
the Gospel and administer in the ordinances thereof.

6. We believe in the same organization that existed in the Primitive 
Church, namely, apostles, prophets, pastors, teachers, evangelists, 
and so forth.

7. We believe in the gift of tongues, prophecy, revelation, visions, healing, interpretation of tongues, and so forth.

8. We believe the Bible to be the word of God as far as it is translated correctly; we also believe the Book of Mormon to be the word of God.

9. We believe all that God has revealed, all that He does now reveal, and we believe that He will yet reveal many great and important things pertaining to the Kingdom of God.

10. We believe in the literal gathering of Israel and in the restoration of the Ten Tribes; that Zion (the New Jerusalem) will be built upon the American continent; that Christ will reign personally upon the earth; and, that the earth will be renewed and receive its paradisiacal glory.

11. We claim the privilege of worshiping Almighty God according to the dictates of our own conscience, and allow all men the same privilege, let them worship how, where, or what they may.

12. We believe in being subject to kings, presidents, rulers, and magistrates, in obeying, honoring, and sustaining the law.

13. We believe in being honest, true, chaste, benevolent, virtuous, and in doing good to all men; indeed, we may say that we follow the admonition of Paul:We believe all things, we hope all things, we have endured many things, and hope to be able to endure all things. If there is anything virtuous, lovely, or of good report or praiseworthy, we seek after these things.

One final note:

In contrast to the political rantings and ravings we have often heard from the pulpits of Obama's religious leaders, we have never and will never hear a candidate-specific political statement from the leaders of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

That's right. Not even when our conference is within a month of the election where "one of our own" is running.  We have been taught the importance of educating ourselves to the facts of every person and situation and to personally and prayerfully cast our vote for the most honest and trustworthy.





Wednesday, October 10, 2012

Many Reasons Christians Should Not Support Obama



Yesterday, I didn't post even though I gave it 
much thought. Now I know why---this arrived 
in my inbox this morning and this is what I need 
to pass on to you.

Dr. Charles Stanley, in partnership with the 
First Baptist Church of Atlanta, presents a weekly program "In Touch" to share life-changing Biblical principles with his audience. Dr. David Barton was a guest on his program.

Dr. Barton is an American Evangelical Christian minister and conservative activist. 

Forward or discard....it's your choice...but PLEASE read before you do!

Should Christians Support President Obama?


Dr. David Barton - on Obama
Respect the office? Yes
Respect the Man in the Office? No, I am sorry to say..
I have noted that many elected officials, both Democrats and Republicans, called upon America to unite behind Obama.
Well, I want to make it clear to all who will listen that I AM NOT uniting behind Obama!
I will respect the Office which he holds, and I will acknowledge his abilities as an orator and wordsmith and pray for him, BUT that is it.
I have begun today to see what I can do to make sure that he is a one-term President!
Why am I doing this ?
It is because: 
- I do not share Obama's vision or value system for America ;
- I do not share his Abortion beliefs;
- I do not share his radical Marxist's concept of re-distributing wealth;
- I do not share his stated views on raising taxes on those who make $150,000+ (the ceiling has been changed three times since August);
- I do not share his view that America is Arrogant;
- I do not share his view that America is not a Christian Nation;
- I do not share his view that the military should be reduced by 25%;
- I do not share his view of amnesty and giving more to illegals than our American Citizens who need help;
- I do not share his views on homosexuality and his definition of marriage;
- I do not share his views that Radical Islam is our friend and Israel is our enemy who should give up any land;
- I do not share his spiritual beliefs (at least the ones he has made public);
- I do not share his beliefs on how to re-work the healthcare system in America.
      - I do not share his Strategic views of the Middle East ;      and
      - I certainly do not share his plan to sit down with terrorist regimes such a Iran .

Bottom line: my America is vastly different from Obama's, and I have a higher obligation to my Country and my GOD to do what is Right!

For eight (8) years, the Liberals in our Society, led by numerous entertainers who would have no platform and no real credibility but for their celebrity status, have attacked President Bush, his family, and his spiritual beliefs!

They have not moved toward the center in their beliefs and their philosophies, and they never came together nor compromised their personal beliefs for the betterment of our Country!

They have portrayed my America as a land where everything is tolerated except being intolerant!

They have been a vocal and irreverent minority for years!

They have mocked and attacked the very core values so important to the founding and growth of our Country!
They have made every effort to remove the name of GOD or Jesus Christ from our Society!

They have challenged capital punishment, the right to bear firearms, and the most basic principles of our criminal code!

They have attacked one of the most fundamental of all Freedoms, the right of free speech!
Unite behind Obama? Never!

I am sure many of you who read this think that I am going overboard, but I refuse to retreat one more inch in favor of those whom I believe are the embodiment of Evil!
PRESIDENT BUSH made many mistakes during his Presidency, and I am not sure how history will judge him. However, I believe that he weighed his decisions in light of the long established Judeo-Christian principles of our Founding Fathers!!!
Majority rules in America , and I will honor the concept; however, I will fight with all of my power to be a voice in opposition to Obama and his "goals for America ..."
I am going to be a thorn in the side of those who, if left unchecked, will destroy our Country! Any more compromise is more defeat!
I pray that the results of this election will wake up many who have sat on the sidelines and allowed the Socialist-Marxist anti-GOD crowd to slowly change so much of what has been good in America!
GOD bless you and GOD bless our Country!

(Please, please, please, pass this on if you agree.
If you don't agree, just delete it.)
Thanks for your time, may you and yours be safe.
"In GOD We Trust"

I am Simply, Gail and my blog is not usually political but I know we cannot simply ignore what is happening to "We the American People."

If not Obama?  

Please check back with me tomorrow.